The meaning of a Common Law Marriage is that the couple gets married under common law. This means they do not have an obligation to sign a contract with the State.
In a Common Law Marriage a couple can be married by whom ever they choose to marry them. Sometimes it is a family member or it could be a good friend of the family or they can be married by a Common Law Attorney or a Marriage Celebrant. The couple can still have a memorable ceremony. In actual fact it is a more intimate occasion than having a stranger perform the ceremony.
There are many advantages of a common law marriage and one is that the marriage is not bound by Statute Law.

No need to sign with the State
Having a wedding that is free from the State also means that there will be no need for a costly divorce if the marriage breaks down and they decide to split-up.
There is also no reason why they can’t have a prenuptial agreement put in place by the couple. They can do this before they marry or anytime after that. They would need to make the agreement in front of family members or someone else of honour and to have someone witnessed the agreement and to have the agreement sealed by a handshake. This agreement may be concerning children, property or any other arrangements that they what to agree on and to happen if they were to split up.
The married couples don’t need the State to do their thinking for them. We as individuals and members of a community have the capacity to solve our own problems without involving a third party person or entity, such as the State. This also means they do not need a lawyer to settle disputes between the two people who are separating.
Also, it is known that as from 1961 the marriage laws changed so that being married by the State means that a couples children are only recognized as being legal under State law. Parents sign away many rights to their own children by getting married by the State.
Why is a Common Law Marriage better than a State marriage?
- Because getting married is something personal between two people and should be kept that way.
- A marriage is based on customs and traditions of the family and the community and has nothing at all to do with the State.
- Another advantage of getting married under Common Law is that you are not bound by a religion.
- A Common law marriages is a legal marriage.
Malcolm McClure of UPMART talks about common law marriages during his UPMART Common Law Courses UCLC Please contact us on the UPMART website and book in for a course.
By not having a contract with the state it means that a child born from the union of a Common Law marriage that the State cannot claim an interest in the child via his or her birth certificate.
Please leave a comment on your views or an opinion you may have on a common law marriage.
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June 13th, 2010 at 8:07 am
Bev Langford
Thanks Jill,
Very informative, I thought that common law marriage was very similar to a defacto relationship but this has pointed out a few differences for me.
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June 16th, 2010 at 9:10 pm
Wal Heinrich
Once again, Jill, you have amazed me with your information. For people to know about common law marriage isn’t that common. This is new to me and I have to agree with Bev, this article has been an eye opener.
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June 17th, 2010 at 11:29 pm
Jill Brown
Hi Bev,
Thank-you.
Yes, your marriage is about what is best for you and not what the State may want to dictate to you.
June 17th, 2010 at 11:52 pm
Jill Brown
Hi Wal,
Unfortunately our basic common law rights have been lost under a cloud of fear. The fear is created by bad Statute laws made just to take our money. Like a right of passage, is a primary human right. It’s up there with your right to breathe. Traveling should not have a Road Toll.
Sorry to take so long answering questions. I didn’t know I had any – need to adjust my blog settings, I can see.
July 29th, 2010 at 12:27 am
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